We live in exactly those times that our great-great-grandmothers were secretly dreaming of – and you know exactly what I mean!

Ladies, dildos have been with us for thousands of years, coming much earlier than the vibrators, but that doesn’t mean that we can consider them low-tech now! As our natural erotic companions, vibrators reached near-divinity in the minds of lonely women throughout the ages, and it became normal to live with them as with best friends.

For our forgotten grandmothers, auto-eroticism was a form of alchemy and dildos were there to bolster sex magic – and it was totally natural. After all, what else are you gonna do without the Internet all day?

So, the question is not so much what came after the dildos, but how their modern incarnation, the vibrators, can help women reach new sensual heights!

Here are few essentials to sip from the ancient magic.

The Sacred Ancestor

Referring to dildos simply as ‘sex toys’ would be very unfair, the dildos are as ancient as all my grandmothers combined! In fact, our grandmothers honored them, with their specially-knitted bags and stylish preservation boxes in their intimate rooms. 

From Ancient Egypt, Rome, and the Taoist East, China and Japan, to the pagans of the Neolith, dildos have been part of women’s personal erotic journeys for tens of thousands of years in one form or another, always present to cheer with the rise of the new dawn.

They had quite sophisticated tastes, our grandmothers, lacquering their dildos of polished wood or marble, in well defined phallic shapes to reach their magic spots from G to A. So ladies, dildos have been going through their own evolution from 30,000 BC up to today, and one thing has never changed – they are silent when we aren’t!

Quiet Orgasm Makers

The dildos are quiet, and their excellence lies in what they bring to women’s sexual life, depending on what they’re made from and how their surfaces feel when they touch our most sensitive spots.

The beginnings were rough, but today is a different time: we have the luxury of an abundance of materials including glass, steel, silicon, wood, ceramic, and jelly, shaped into a variety of phallic and near-phallic objects, and even some with futuristic aesthetics!

The most prominent difference from a vibrator is that they will remain quiet when they arouse you; quiet when those fluids come out of your soft nether parts; and quiet when they unify your sex-brain cells in a heavenly climax with your erogenous points.

Materials for Dildos Only 

Dildos can truly be unique, and that’s why they are irresistible. Ever had a daydream about one while sipping your morning coffee, a daydream so intense you crafted one by yourself the next day? Hard to imagine this ever being possible for a vibrator…

Anyway, they can be made of glass, wood, or ceramic, and that spices my imagination up to a huge scale. Try it next time you play with your dildo, feel its shape and surface and what poetry it writes on the sex length waves on your brain when connected with your erotic play.

Dildo Techniques

Much like vibrators, dildos can be used solo or in a couple, but they can show you some more exclusive sensations, ones that you’ll only be able to get with your dildo, while discovering how you’d like to be touched – all the way to climax! When you get into vibrators after this, you can speak a new sex language, and hey… Ever felt like your partner understands that language?

Meanwhile, sure, vibrators buzz and create different types of sensations. Vibrators are also battery-operated or electrical, while dildos are not operated by electricity; therefore the sensations created by using a dildo will come from manual insertion and movement – what you do is what you get!

Here are a few tips on dildo techniques to take you through an exciting ride into orgasm!

Deep Thrusts

This is an exciting technique if you’re more into smooth-shaped dildos made of materials such as wood, glass, ceramic that have a firm core and aren’t easily bendable. Thrusting deeply inside your vagina with such a dildo on the entire inner sensitive skin area length can provide highly intense stimulations. You may like to experiment with some inflatable dildos or even some of those voluminously shaped dildos that will give you a filling-up sensation inside your vagina.

Short and Shallow

The first third of our erotic portals are made of an incredibly sensitive web of nerve endings. So, once you get them aroused, you don’t have to go so deep! Staying in the lobby with the right angles and sufficient pressure will make your dildo work wonders for your G-spot – especially in combination with clit fingering!

The New Sexual Reality For Women

Dildos come in a variety of shapes, so with the proper technique they can inflict intense sexual pleasure. If you happen to fall in love with a straight-shaped dildo with a visibly bulbous head, you can direct the pressure of the movements on the upper vaginal wall while thrusting shallowly. Or, if you grab a curved-angle dildo, you can direct the pressure of the movements towards your bed, while you lay on your back and touch your nether regions for extra adrenaline! 

To end this brief musing, I’d say we can give a tribute to our grandmothers that couldn’t live up to the time when our dear buzzing toys came to life. Their dildos and our familiar toys have so many things in common, and yet so many secrets to reveal – from the new generation, to the old – and back again!

Remember, all the new milestones you can reach and teach each other with your partners will become possible if you… 

Stay imaginative,

Stay audacious,

Stay Devine!