Well, well… If it’s not the bravest of them all.
I gotta hand it to you, my unknown friend, even the minimum research on a strap on for double penetration is impressive – most people are terrified to learn about things that make your eyes pop up and bring that ‘hm, I could really enjoy this’ smile to your face.
But no matter the reason you’re here, it’s important to know what you’re getting into, because let me tell you – this is not a journey for the faint-hearted. You might not like it, you might even shiver at first, but with the right partner, it can be a real treat.
If there’s a list of things that bring the most memorable sexual pleasure, this dildo will be among the top five women’s sex toys. Let’s see what all the fuss is about.
A Double What Now? And There’s A Strap On For That?
Sex is not something to judge or be judged for. We all enjoy different things behind closed doors – and some people like to enjoy two things at a time.
Well, that’s what double penetration stands for. A strap-on is a dildo, usually with a harness designed to be worn while providing sexual pleasure to your partner with thrusting motions. The harness has two rings, one for the actual penis and one for the dildo. But, if you prefer to use it with other people, you can put any type of dildo you want in both rings.
With the help of a strap on, a person can penetrate both in the vagina and the anus at the same time. The premise is deceptively simple – and very effective!
A double penetration strap on doesn’t care about your sexual orientation – everyone can use it. But, as I said, some things about this type of toy may cause you to cringe, so here are a few of them to remember:
Communication, Communication, Communication
I can’t stress this enough. You can’t stop your foreplay and say to your partner ‘I bought something today, wanna try it out?’
True, some people may feel aroused by this gesture, even excited, but most of us – thank you, it’s a no for me. I’d like to know what I’m working with prior to having it inside me.
A double penetration strap on requires a nice long talk. There are a lot of details to be discussed, like:
- Do you even want to try it? What made you get one?
- Who feels more comfortable to wear it? Who wants to be on the bottom?
- Is switching something that you’re open to?
- What type of dildo do you want? Do you want something classic or something totally off the charts?
- What type of material? You might be allergic to some materials, or you may have had a bad experience with a specific material in the past. Better to talk it out.
For us ladies, reaching an orgasm is already an uphill battle, so making sure we’re on the same page about this through clear communication, can make us feel secure and relaxed. Talk things over with your partner, or partners if you prefer, but make sure you’re on clear terms before adding this sex toy to your shopping cart.
Take Your Time With The Research On The Dildo
As this is not a milk-and-cereal trip to the market, take as much time as you need before making a purchase. Until you feel completely secure with your choice, don’t invest in it. Women’s sex toys come in various shapes and sizes and are made using different materials.
There are a few things to remember here:
The Harness Of The Dildo
To achieve a complete thrust, the strap-on needs to fit you or your partner perfectly. You don’t want to cock-block yourself with a slouchy, loose strap-on that will give you back pain instead of an orgasm. You can have the strap on for double penetration around your pelvis, but you’re not limited to that either. If you don’t want to use an insertable dildo, there are options: put the harness around your chest, legs, feet – you can have it custom made if you want.
Whatever it takes to get you to that special place, right?
If you want to get it offline, note that some sex toy stores even offer the option to try it before you buy it!
The Type Of Dildo
The beauty of this dildo? The potential for adaptations.
When looking for a strap on for double penetration, make sure to check whether the ‘O ring’ is replaceable or not. Some strap-ons come with multiple rings so you can use different types of dildos, but others are permanent. The rings may come in different sizes, to fit your needs as well as the girth of your dildo collection.
Vibrating dildo or not? That’s up to you, but the perks of vibrations are endless, so you should at least consider it as an option.
The Material Of The Dildo
Silicone or plastic? Maybe metal? All up to you.
There are even glass dildos, but it’s inadvisable to use them with a strap on for double penetration, as it may feel heavier than usual and kill the buzz.
If you’re allergic to any of these materials, I recommend you consult with a professional before engaging in sexual escapades.
And most importantly, use lube. This goes without saying for every sex toy out there, but it’s especially true for strap ons. Choose a lube with the right consistency and make sure you have plenty of it – and you’re good to go!
The Sexual Pleasure You Want To Achieve
If you’re a lady who knows exactly what she wants from her toys, including her boys, then by all means – go for it! There are strap-ons specifically designed to target your G-spot for more intense pleasure. They come in different shapes and sizes, so it’s all about finding the right one for you.
Use It Wisely – Safety First
I know, safety is a six-letter word that can be a real party pooper sometimes (no pun intended). For women to reach an orgasm, feeling safe, secure, sexy in our bodies is a must. If trying out a double penetration strap on, as with all other women’s sex toys, doesn’t at least include some safety talk, the sex may not be as hot as in our fantasies.
These things are necessary to enjoy:
- Use a condom;
- Sexual positions to use the toy in;
- Get tested, because sex toys can be the cause for an STI;
- Clean your dildo – before is advisable, afterward is a must;
- Pineapple – use a safe word, because things may not go as planned and,
- Every time you switch between vaginal and anal use of the same dildo, use a new condom.
I know, this seems like a lot of work for a different bedroom experience, right?
But if you’re willing to invest some time and be completely transparent with your partner, I guarantee you it will be worth your while. A double penetration strap on can awaken the kinkiest sides of you, and you might enjoy it more than you thought. Maybe pair it up with a vibrator or massager for the ultimate experience!
As women, we need to be in touch with our sexuality and explore it beyond our limits. I’ve found that this type of sex toy is an excellent way to get there.
Stay classy.
Stay sexy.
Stay Devine.
