All women’s sex toys are not the same. 

While that gilded, vibrating, unicorn-horned fourteen-incher might look like a fun adventure, try to think about how your doctor’s gonna feel once he has to take it out of your cervix. There’s no rushing when it comes to choosing a good women’s sex toy, especially if it’s your first time! 

You have to think about the materials, sizes, and features. From personal experience, something that’s labeled ‘beginner’ doesn’t necessarily have to tickle your fancy. Sometimes even novices enjoy a bigger package or extra vibrations. 

Luckily for us ladies, we have a plethora of women’s sex toys we can choose from. The market for beginner sex toys is plentiful, to say the least!

Looking to have your G-spot stimulated? There are plenty of rabbit vibrators at your disposal! Want to target your clit specifically? Get a bullet vibrator! 

Interested in what makes butt stuff great? Butt plugs, anal beads, you can have it all!

Two main points to address before we delve in, though:

Rule number 1 – keep it clean!

I’ve read too many horror stories about unkempt women’s sex toys and what fun bacteria grows all over them. Don’t stress over cleaning them though – it’s about as simple as washing your hands with soap after going to the bathroom. 

Most women’s sex toys are made of body-safe materials and tend to be really smooth, which means a good run under the tap with some soap will do the trick 9 out of 10 times. The other time you’re probably dealing with a leather-wrapped toy, in which case a leather cleaner is your best option. 

Rule number 2 – keep it lubed!

I don’t care how wet you think you are, keeping the wheels oiled is always a good idea. The only important thing here is making sure the lube goes with the toy you’re using – you don’t wanna pair up silicone with silicone, for example. Otherwise, it’s just a matter of figuring out what consistency or effect you want. 

Lube isn’t something just for couples either, enhancing your own pleasure with lube can prolong the experience and intensify your orgasm.

Now that we’ve set the ground rules, let’s dig into the toys!

Buzzin’ with good vibes

Vibrators are the toy to start your quest for pleasure with. They come in a variety of shapes and sizes, complete with features fine-tuned to your preferences. They’re also the cheapest kind of women’s sex toys out there.

I often recommend inexperienced and younger girls to start off with a vibrator. The beginner ones are usually tiny and discreet enough to carry around anywhere you may need a little orgasm break. However, in spite of their size, they pack quite a punch!

Here are some vibrators to choose from!


Lovehoney Dream Bullet Vibrator

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When you see a tapered tip on a bullet vibrator, you know it’s a good one! When it comes to sex toys for beginners, bear in mind their function. Bullets are meant to target specific areas of the body, which means the finer the tip taper, the more focused the pleasure delivered by it!

Lovehoney’s Dream Bullet does just that – and it comes in the prettiest purple color too! It has 10 powerful speed and pulse settings and can fit in in the palm of your hand, which means it’s your personal pleasure carry-on!

For just $14, it’s gonna hit the bullseye every time!

Oomph! Mini Bullet Vibrator

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Tip, meet iceberg. 

Oomph’s mini vibrator is excellent for those just dipping their toe into the world of sex for the first time. Ever heard the phrase ‘size doesn’t matter’?

Enter: this mini masterpiece!

Made from soft, smooth, and odorless silicone, it’s the toy to take your fantasies to the next level! It operates below 30 decibels so you can even keep it on-hand during a business meeting or at a party for some alone time. It’s as discreet as it gets!

Oomph’s Mini Bullet Vibrator gets the job done and will have you asking for more – at just $9!

Je Joue Classic Bullet Vibe

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Easy to use, easy to clean, easy to please – it’s Je Joue’s Classic Bullet!

If you know anything about me, it’s that I love the color purple. Whenever a brand comes out with a purple toy, it’s more than likely that it’s gonna be in my arsenal of women’s sex toys. 

It’s also a little bit different from other bullet vibrators that tend to come with three or four set speeds. The Classic Bullet’s intensity is gradual and pulsed, so you can either go to town with its full strength or enjoy a simple tease. Plus, it’s made of smooth silicone, so it’s completely waterproof!

When you’re done, just put it on the charger and wait for round 2.

What more could you want at $59, really? 

Lelo Mia 2

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Lipstick is a girl’s favorite item – followed closely by their preferred sex toy. 

Thanks to Lelo, we now have a wonderful combination of the two that looks like it could be a part of MAC’s new collection. The design is a classic black and grey, allowing it to fit perfectly into your makeup bag. On top of that, it’s waterproof and USB-rechargeable, so you can literally use your laptop to fill the batteries while you’re getting ready.

Discover the hidden secrets of the Mia 2 for $59!


Happy Rabbit G-Spot Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator

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When you think of a vibrator, it’s probably a rabbit. 

Lovehoney’s Happy Rabbit will have you hopping around from all the joy and orgasms you experience when using it. It was one of the first rabbit vibrators I tried, and ever since then, I’ve been reaching into my drawer for it to enhance my solo adventures or sexy times with my partner. 

Convenience is key with many toys, and as this rabbit is USB-rechargeable, you won’t have to worry about ill-planned trips to your local Target for batteries anytime soon. It’s also packing 2 motors for 12 shaft functions, 9 patterns and 3 speeds, with 2 targeted tips for your clit.

Talk about the full package!

There’s no bunny quite like Happy Rabbit. It’s gonna cost you a pretty penny at $89 but will last for years to come!

Sweet Vibrations – The Perfect Match Rabbit Vibrator

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I heard about the Perfect Match being the rabbit vibrator to get on the market, so naturally, I had to try it out for myself. While all rabbits are great for both external and internal stimulation, the Perfect Match stands up to its name if you’re just starting to explore your own body – it’s a superb sex toy for beginners!

You can be certain you’re getting quality with it too. I’ve had it for a number of years and it looks and works just as great as the first time I used it. If you’re into your toys feeling good, the PM has you covered with its sturdy insides, and a soft silicone exterior that just screams luxury!

It doesn’t let you down functions-wise either. I’m talking 10 vibration patterns, independent motors on each tip and an excellent double-teamer for the G-spot and the clit.

Find your perfect playmate in the Perfect Match at $49!

We-Vibe Nova Rechargeable G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator

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I love a sex toy with a story behind it. This magical gadget was created to be a non-threatening, intense and precise addition to your bedroom – not to mention it comes with an app! It was one of my favorite vibrators to use while I was away from my partner, cause it’s just made to satisfy! 

It looks like any ol’ rabbit vibrator at first. A long, sturdy exterior, a curved arm that brings pleasure to your clit, and a G-spot targeting tip to drive you crazy. It has 10 vibration modes, each of them adjustable for the type of play you want. 

We-Vibe made sure their toy was designed for long-lasting pleasure. I decided to test the ‘2-hour playtime’ claim myself, and the verdict stands – intense pleasure, plenty of variety in the vibrations and excellent applicability for some sexy bathroom times!

It definitely justifies the $150 price tag.

Calexotics California Dreaming Orange Country Rabbit Vibrator

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Albert Hammond said it never rains in Southern California. Well, Calexotics beg to differ – and so does my vagina! 

For those of you who wanna start off with clitoral stimulation and penetration, you get both in this one little toy. I prefer it to a lot of other women’s sex toys I own because it moves by itself and you don’t have to tire your arm out to cum.

It’s got an intense G-spot massager that flicks left and right to hit any spot you feel like hitting. It offers 3 speeds that all have independent thrusting, so you can go 1 – 2 – 3 or skip the counting and explode on the fastest setting. It also has 10 vibration settings and it’s waterproof!

California day. California weather. Calexotics California Rabbit Vibrator – all for just 50 bucks!


Dildos are usually the next step after you’ve realized how good orgasms can be without your hands. While you’ll usually take well to any vibrator seeing as they’re the perfect toy to get you off, dildos can be a little bit more challenging. 

This is primarily due to their size. Don’t let porn fool you, the bigger the dildo, the more pain you’re gonna be in, usually, so it’s debatable if dildos are good as sex toys for beginners. Thankfully, I’ve singled out some first-time friendly dildos that are both classics and your first class ticket to the high heavens! 

Paloqueth Realistic Ultra-Soft Dildo For Beginners

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Meet Amazon’s number-1 best seller! As far as women’s sex toys for beginners and dildos go, Paloqueth have checked all the boxes.

Looks-wise, it’s realistic to the point where you can definitely mistake it for a real-life dong. The suction base cup is wide enough to not get lost in there if you go too far, and the insertable length is at around 5 inches, so it’s perfect for the inexperienced girls out there. 

It also comes with its own lube to help you if you’re feeling nervous or not wet enough to try it out for the first time. And at just 12 bucks, what are you waiting for, honestly? 

Strap U Tri-Play Silicone Dildo Set

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I’m not usually the biggest fan of sets. They tend to be overpriced for the toys they include and sometimes the selection is subpar. Luckily though, the Strap U Tri-Play Dildo Set is the diamond in the rough when it comes to good dildo sets.

It includes three, purple-colored silicone dildos of three different sizes, all designed for beginner penetration, both anal and vaginal. They’ve got a swirling pattern for an extra sensation and a strong suction cup to use on whatever floor or wall you’d like. 

Plus, this set even lets you double-team, if you’re interested in filling yourself up to the brim. Or you know, try to fit it onto a strap on. My point is, it’s as versatile as it gets – and it’s a steal at just $26! 

What About Butt Stuff?

The journey to the forbidden fruit is always a fun venture to go on, regardless if you’re doing it with a partner or going solo. This is where making sure you’re lubed up and relaxed plays a really important role. Otherwise you’re gonna be in for a world of pain, even with sex toys for beginners

I’m gonna be focusing on butt-specific women’s sex toys. While you can obviously use the dildo or vibrator you have at home to explore the backdoor, using a gadget that’s made for anal is a far safer bet.

Now, the world of anal sex toys for beginners is a bottomless pit, thanks to the fact that most people trying them usually don’t have any prior experience. That leaves plenty of room for variety at pretty affordable prices. Let’s get into it!

Butt plugs

B-Vibe Snug Plug

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If we’re talking about beginner butt action, the Snug Plugs come to mind immediately. Not only are they stylish with pretty colors that help you start an art collection, but they make sure that feeling of fullness is ever-present. 

They’re weighted to make for a stimulating, fulfilling experience, and come in three different sizes, all made of silicone. The tapered tips are great for easy insertion and they don’t stretch you out too much. Even the level two ones are comfortable enough to not cause too much unwanted pressure.

They’re $48 each and would be an incredible addition to your arsenal – each and every one of them!

Tanus Ultra-Premium Silicone Butt Plug

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Flexible material, a tapered tip and body-safe silicone are what Tanus jam-packed in a butt plug perfect for all anal enthusiasts out there.

It’s fairly small, so it’s not gonna intimidate you whenever you wanna use it. It’s also very thin so it can slide in easily without tearing you a new one. Plus, the base is pretty wide so you can keep the full power of the butt plug at a safe distance. It’s also really nice to the touch, with a silky-like feel to it. 

Honestly, for $24, you’re getting premium quality at a very low price.

Anal beads

Babeland Anal Beads

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These were my first anal beads after I got into butt stuff.  I’d recommend them to every novice looking to ease themselves into their bottom adventures.

Unlike a lot of anal beads marketed as ‘beginner friendly’, Babeland has made sure to keep their product slim, small and with a gradually expanding design that will slowly advance you from one level of fullness to the next. They’re also made to be both firm and flexible, so you don’t have to worry about them being too flimsy or too rough when inside you.

Safety is still Babeland’s number-one concern, and the two-fingered loops will make sure this toy doesn’t stray too far in. 

Plus, they only cost $17!

B-Vibe Vibrating Anal Beads

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This one is costly in comparison to the other toys on the list, but it’s well worth it. The full package can give you stimulation on the daily, while also tossing in some vibrations for good measure. Kicking off your anal adventures has never been simpler than with the B-Vibe! 

Aside from it doubling as regular anal beads that you can use as you would any other, it’s also a force to be reckoned with in terms of features. It has 6 vibration levels and 15 vibration patterns, it’s remote-controlled, waterproof, USB-rechargeable and travel-friendly.

Sounds perfect? That’s because it is – and for me, it’s a must-have in the world of anal beads! 

Splurge $140 and enjoy some high-end exploration of your forbidden fruit.

To sum it all up

The market for beginner sex toys is oversaturated to the point where you can’t differentiate between what’s actually for newbies and what’s just marketed as that. Whatever toy you decide to go for, make sure you’re comfortable with the lower levels before moving upwards. 

There are various ways to use any of these toys – there are no rules in the world of women’s sex toys! Just relax and use lots of lube, regardless of your amount of experience. Have fun!

Stay sexy.

Stay adventurous.

Stay Devine!